Advice for new swinging couples
We've added this page to help newbie swingers make sure you fully realise what your getting into and hopefully stop you making some or the more common mistakes that newbie swinging couples make as this swinging article is for couples only
The this page is for people thats considering starting out down the fun road of swinging and will point out some of the possible pitfalls that you could fall into as whilst many couple fantasise about swinging actually doing it is another thing
   
Many couples consider the swinging scene with little consideration of the possible problems, after all you have to remember you are talking about having sex with strangers and you need to make sure you are BOTH happy about this and hopefully is so then great as swingers do love seeing new members coming into the scene
consideration before you join a UK swingers website
- Don"t push your partner into swinging - Swinging is something you BOTH have to be fully happy about so discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner and when you've both talked about what you want to try then you can start turning your sexual fantasises into reality. The important consideration is that either of you is not FULLY happy about swinging then don't join and it will lead to problems in your relationship as dragging a reluctant partner into the scene will lead to problems.
- Knowing your boundaries - Boundaries, in other words just how far your happy to go with another couple and the worst thing you can do is visit members not knowing how far you want to go - so once you've decent your both happy to join a site and hopefully joined us consider how far you want to go with members you'll be meeting. Often members will say within profile the type of swapping they will consider from soft swapping to full swapping meets, bareback or safe sex only so consider this before you start working on your profile
After you've had your first meet talk about how it went, make sure you were both happy about seeing your partner with someone else and if there was something you didn't like either don't do that or stop as its pointless swinging if you both don't fully enjoy it
- Understand what your getting into - - Your joining a sex contacts website not a dating site so don't read more into the contacts than they are is sex nothing else. You may well build friendships with swingers and some members will prefer this but bottom line its about sex contacts so don't go falling in love with your swapping contacts as declaring your love for someone will complicate matters - The rule is if your looking for love find another site
Whilst these pointers may seem obvious you'll be amazed how many couple don't fully talk about joining a swingers website, then can't understand why problems happen and sometimes "worse case" marriages break up
So if you want to join up and meet with thousands of couples from all over the UK or indeed Europe join us today and start having some swinging fun
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